The Power of Meaningful Relationships as You Age
Networking with Heart: Friends Are Your Best Asset
I've had the pleasure of making friends from a very young age, and I'm fortunate to have kept many of those relationships over the years. As I transitioned into the workforce, the skills I developed early on—making friends, reading rooms, and valuing friendships—proved invaluable. Now, as a CEO, I recognize the importance of these skills more than ever.
When was the last time you thought about how nice it would be to have someone in your life who could help you with an area where you're not as strong? For example, if you need someone to build you an app, go find that person. Throughout my life, I've embraced this approach. It's not about using people—it's about forming bonds with those who have strengths that complement my own.
One thing I've learned over the years is the importance of checking in on people. A simple text, a message on social media, a phone call, or even a birthday card can make a huge difference. When was the last time you received a card from someone other than your family? It feels good, right? People who send you cards are your real friends. So, go out there, make some real friends, and send them some real cards. A quick "HBD" via text doesn't cut it.
There's something truly special about reconnecting with friends who have known you for a long time. Unlike family, who might feel obligated to like you, friends choose to be in your life because they genuinely like you. It's a comforting and affirming experience.
In today's world, we're all drifting into the danger zone of becoming strangers, afraid of everything and everyone. That's why it's more important than ever to make genuine connections. Invest effort into your relationships, and you'll be rewarded with deep, meaningful friendships that enrich your life.
So, get out there, make some friends, and don't forget to send them a real card now and then. The effort you put into these relationships will pay off in ways you can't even imagine.
“As we get older, meaningful relationships are about having strong connections, emotional support, shared memories, and a lasting sense of belonging.”
- Mike
You're absolutely right! The community made up of those we care about and who care about us is so important and we definitely need to nurture it.